Losing Your Virginity Isn’t As Bad As It Seems…

… Or maybe that’s what we’d like to think.

The movies and stories told that are based on storybooks depict losing your virginity to be an utmost horror – with pain and blood everywhere.

Back in the day, when you have done the “deed”, no one really talks about it. Either you were too shy or embarrassed of what went down – know that, there is nothing to be ashamed of. This is a safe space for us to share!

Everyone’s experiences tend to differ. But in the mean time, we’ve compiled some hilarious stories you guys were willing to share with us:

A Bloody Mess 

“My boyfriend and I were really getting into our make-out session and I thought that it was time to finally to seal the deal! So he got aligned between my legs and slipped cause I had silk sheets on my bed. Before I could BRAIN what was happening, his elbow hit my nose and freakin’ broke it! Blood was literally everywhere (not the kind of blood I expected) – on my chest, all over his hands and my sheets. Needless to say, the word ‘sexy’ did not come close.

On the bright side, we did try it a second time, minus the silk sheets and elbow flying in my face and it was amazing! No pain, no blood – from anywhere” – Chloe, 25, Banker.

What Happened At Church

“Lost it to my boyfriend in the backseat of the car while my parents thought I was at church #noregrets.” – Anne, 27, Event Planner.

Mommy Dearest

“I invited my girlfriend over to my house cause my parents were going to a family event for the night. I lit some candles and scattered roses all over my parent’s bed, I mean it is the biggest one in the house.

So my girl arrives and everything was going according to plan. I hear a door open but I just assumed it was one of my siblings, my parents did say that they were gonna be at the event till late night.

Just as I was about to climax, my mom walks in and screams so loud, the neighbour’s alarm goes off!

My girlfriend got so scared, she ran away and we ended up breaking up the next day.” – James, 22, Student.

Under The Stars

“We had planned a night picnic for 2. Since my boyfriend drives a pick up truck, we thought we could just set everything up in the truck bed and enjoy a good night.

Boy was it an amazing night alright. I felt everything that they described. The toe curling, stars twinkling when you shut your eyes. I’m happy to say that we are about to get married this June.” – Claire, 24, Sales Assistant.

Spongebob Marathon

“It was weird. On the floor of my living room and with Songebob’s voice as the background noise. He came while I stared into Spongebob’s eyes.” – Jasmine, 28, Lawyer.

Intoxicated Blur

“I wish I could say it was magical and fireworks, rose petals, or candles were involved; but in reality, I was pretty drunk and decided that I just was ready.

I had been dating this guy for a couple of months and knew that I wanted to lose my virginity with him. Although it was kind of a blurry intoxicated mess, I’m so glad it was with him. He’s still my current boyfriend and now we just laugh about that entire night.” – Nicole, 22, Student.


*Written by Meghan Angelica Paul